- Know what you hope to get and develop questions to draw out what you need.
- Write down questions (but don’t look at them while the person is talking to you)
- Start with less challenging questions
- Try and get a beginning, middle and end
- Personal experience, the story of what happened, is often more resonant than opinions (though they can be important too)
More tips for Preparing Questions:
- Be prepared - know your subject
- Ask questions that require a good answer: No yes/no questions
- Open, not Leading, Questions.
Example of Great Questions (from StoryCorps):
https://storycorps.org/great-questions/
Great Questions for Anyone (not an exhaustive list):
- Who has been the most important person in your life? Can you tell me about him or her?
- What was the happiest moment of your life? The saddest?
- Who has been the biggest influence on your life? What lessons did that person teach you?
- Who has been the kindest to you in your life?
- What are the most important lessons you’ve learned in life?
- What is your earliest memory?
- What is your favorite memory of me?
- Are there any funny stories your family tells about you that come to mind?
- Are there any funny stories or memories or characters from your life that you want to tell me about?
- What are you proudest of?
- When in life have you felt most alone?
- If you could hold on to one memory from your life forever, what would that be?
- How has your life been different than what you’d imagined?
- How would you like to be remembered?
- Do you have any regrets?
- What does your future hold?
- What are your hopes for what the future holds for me? For my children?
- If this was to be our very last conversation, is there anything you’d want to say to me
- For your great great grandchildren listening to this years from now: is there any wisdom you’d want to pass on to them? What would you want them to know?
- Is there anything that you’ve never told me but want to tell me now?
- Is there something about me that you’ve always wanted to know but have never asked?
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